If you would like to experience a wonderful existence, do not occupy yourself with these 7 deathly behaviours that dysfunctional people do.
1 - They Imagine, Speak, & Execute Negative Things.
Yes. They foresee trouble in every opportunity.
They complain that the sun is too hot. They swear at the rain for destroying their day. They blame the atmosphere for wrecking their hair.
They believe that everybody is opposing them. They see the problems but never the answers.
Every trivial bit of setback is amplified to the point of catastrophe. They view failures as tragedies. They get disheartened easily, rather than learning from their errors.
They never appear to go forwards, as they are forever afraid to step out of their comfort zones.
2 - They Act Before They Think.
They proceed, based on instinct or impulsion. If they view something they like, they purchase immediately with no reconsideration.
Then they see something more beneficial. They repent & swear because of not being able to capitalize on the bargain.
Then they spend & spend over again till nothing's left. They do not consider about the future. What they are pursuing is the delight they will incur immediately.
They do not think about the consequenses. Those who partake in unsafe sex, criminality, and such things are added to this grouping.
3 - They Speak and Babble A Great Deal More Than They Listen.
They prefer to be the superstar of the show. So they always partake in dialogue that would brand them champions, even to the extent of falsifying
Oftentimes they are not cognisant that what they are saying is not wise any longer.
When others counsel them, they fold their ears because they're too haughty to accept their errors.
In their judgement they're all of the time right. They dismiss suggestions because that would declare them deficient.
4 - They Throw In The Towel Easily.
Successful people process failures as stepping stones to achievement.
Incapable ones call it a day upon realising the first signals of failure.
Initially, they may be aroused to begin an activity. But and then they lose interest somewhat rapidly, particularly when they run into problems.
Then they depart & hunt for a new one. Same history & same outcomes. Bungling people do not have the perseverance to continue on and accomplish their aspirations.
5 - They Attempt To Drag Other People Down To Their Own Level.
Dysfunctional people begrudge other successful individuals. Rather than putting to work hard to be similar to them, these fumbling ones circulate rumors and try every foul trick to bring them down.
They could've enquired of those successful ones nicely. But no, they are too arrogant. They do not wish to request advise. Furthermore, they're too negative to attain anything.
6 - They Squander Their Time.
They do not recognise what to do next. They might simply be contented on feeding, becoming intoxicated, watching television, or worse, gazing at the blank wall without any ideas whatever to better their existence.
It is utterly fine to bask now and again. But time ought be handled expeditiously in order to succeed. There should be a right balance betwixt employment & pleasure.
7 - They Take the Easy Way Out.
If there exists dual routes to select from, incapable people will select the broader route with lower advantages than the narrower route with a lot better payoffs at the finish.
They do not desire any discomfort or adversity. They want a sweet time.
What these people don't realise is that what you harvest is what you sow. Efforts & action won't pass unnoticed.
If only they would be amenable to sacrifice a bit, they would be a lot better off.
Successful people pulled through the trials, tribulations & errors. They do not give up. They were prepared to do everything essential, to accomplish what they aimed for in life.
by Rev.Bola A. (14.12.09)
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